Smartie
Assuming you aren't just trying to be provocative and you are really that ignorant, I have to ask: Have you lost your fucking mind?
I don't care if you personally are gay/straight/bi/questioning, male/female or the holy fucking gender/race indiscriminate spirit come down from heaven, WTF?
How dare you (or anyone else on this website or any others like it) think you get to just spew homophobic crap and then accuse anyone who questions you of being a "tard" and laugh it off like it's cute.
American Idol is just a singing competition, yes. But Adam Lambert and young men just like him are a hundred times braver than your narrow-minded arse for having the courage to just BE and be themselves in a world full people like you.
A person doesn't have to even like Adam Lambert to see how twisted some of the things are that get said "as a joke" on this site proper and in the comments section.
Yeah, I came all the way over here to your site specifically just to say this and no, I'm not a "fantard" for Adam or anybody else. I think he's talented. I also love Kris Allen (the music and the man).
What I don't love is belly-crawling, scum sucking "people" who think gay folks will just bow and scrape and smile and shuffle while you put your virtual foot on our figurative neck.
You aren’t the only one spitting bile but you happen to be THE ONE I’m speaking to.
There is no actual "evidence" one way or the other as to whether or not Adam Lambert or Kris Allen for that matter is a "diva" who doesn't know how to behave or an angel gracing us with their goodness. They may both be raging egomaniacs (who happen to be good actors). Until you hang with them you're not really going to know. For all anyone knows Kris Allen could be a boozing rage hound who beats his wife with a bible if she doesn't wash up properly and regularly beds under-aged chamber maids (let's hope not).
But the point is, we don't actually know a damn thing about what these folks are "really" like, we just know what they are "giving" in their interviews and on stage and “gay” is not a character trait or mode of behavior. “Gay” is about who you want to fuck. Period.
It’s like living in Bizarro world that people actually claim that gay folks complain too much when posts like yours are a dime a dozen since this competition began and “articles” like the above only feed the “burn the faggots” fire. Yeah, it’s just a comment on a blog but it’s actually no different than what Billy Bush said on Access Hollywood or any number of pundits have spit out (just with longer phrases and bigger words) or anything any gay dude could hear if they stood out front of the local collage bar on a Firday night long enough.
There seem to be way more people saying Adam Lambert is lovely and humble and kind and giving and supportive, etc. I've never met the child before but that is definitely the impression he gives off in interviews and the vibe you feel from folks talking about him (outside of Idol).
But if Adam was being a bitch to whomever, wherever, I'm inclined to believe they deserved it and probably a slap to go along with it.
Not because he's Adam Lambert and that makes him special but because anybody working in the service industry who is a professional and would take out the time to bad mouth somebody to the papers just to get to be in the news is a tool (the fact that the didn't identify themselves just makes them a punk-assed tool!)
Being gay has nothing to do with being a "bitch" (flaming queenyness not withstanding). Sometimes everybody needs to be a bitch and if some random hotel worker or waitress can't stand it, they are in the wrong business. Everyone should be treated with respect regardless of their profession but only if they do unto others…
In terms of having to navigate a world of ass-backwards people like you appear to be, I say to Adam Lambert what I say to my 15-year-old gay nephew, "FLAME ON BABY! If they want to call you a bitch (because if you're a gay man who's not blending in, they will eventually) tell em it's MR. BITCH, MOTHERFUCKER, WATCH ME WORK!
Some of these "journalists" and bloggers (gay and straight) might as well start off every comment/article about this boy by saying "I hate faggots but I particularly hate flaming freakified faggots who are all up in my face with their faggotry and don't know their place".
It would be less duplicitous, more ballsy and possibly even entertaining.
It is never really about the music or what the judges did or didn’t do. It’s not even about the nail polish and eyeliner (which every rocker boy since Bowie has worn at some point) It’s always about the audacity. You and people like you just can’t stand a man who doesn’t act “like a man” in the stereotypical manner that you want them to and has the nerve to be smiley and warm in the process.
People don’t like Adam and boys/men like him because people are homophobic. If they aren’t trying to banish the gays away to the cornfield, they want their gays neat and tidy and manageable.
Either you “Smartie” think all gay men are flaming queen bitches (in which case Adam is by default) or you have some actual evidence beyond the unidentified sources of the MSNBC article to back up your assumptions that Adam Lambert must be a "bitch". Or is his being a "flaming queen" proof enough?
Call me a glamtard or whatever you need to justify yourself. This site is meant to be satirical and cynical but the homophobia just seems to flow so easily that it just takes the wit out of whatever snarky, funny thing you were trying to say.
Your throw away homophobic venomous one-liners are not funny, witty, clever or even new.
People like you say stuff like that as if you’re the first or will be the last person to call Adam or any other gay man "Flaming Queen" or "Bitch". PLEASE!
I have no idea who or what you are (and don’t care to investigate) but is that the best you can come up with in 2009? I'm sure Adam Lambert already has both t-shirts. If you're straight it's pitiful and if you're gay, it's just sad and pitiful.
And before you make up who you think I am, I’ll give you the demos: university librarian, 40, African-American (Black, whatever word you’d like to use) dyke activist and mouthy New Yorker who is often Bitchy and always Flaming (it ain’t just for queens you know).
On behalf of Adam Lambert and every other gender-bender, uppity, flaming, diesel dyke, lipstick lesbian INSANELY TALENTED queer who dared not to blend in or be less than FABULOUS, I say you and your retrograde ilk can KISS our collective same-sex loving, Stonewall rioting, freak flag flying ASS!
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Adam does seem like a guy who's way too into himself, so the story sounds true. It'll be funny to watch his electro pop album tank in a few months.
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