Right Lamebert4Life, most gays make being gay the only aspect of their life. Please. I have several gay friends, and they don't only talk about being gay. Sure, if it's relevant in the conversation they'd bring an aspect of it up, but it's not like every sentence they say is "I'm gay." I tend not to talk to people who talk about one thing all the time or obsess, whether they're gay or straight or white or black or asian or whatever. And you know why? Because when people do that, IT'S ANNOYING!

The public becomes obsessed with your sexuality when you keep denying it or try to go back in the closet or are noticably ashamed of being gay and when you look SUPER gay.

And that's what will happen with Adam.

"So basically, you're insulting all other gay people by saying you don't want to do anything having to do with your sexuality because you're just so over it?"

Wow, you're a complete moron.

Many MANY gay people were offended by Aaron's letter.

Adam is saying "We should not have to put ourselves in a box. Gay people shouldn't define themselves solely on being gay, but rather as people in general. Aaron is drawing attention to our differences and having an us vs them mentality, rather than trying to bring people together."

Basically, Adam is giving an MLK viewpoint and Aaron was giving an early Malcolm X viewpoint.

I'm sorry you were too stupid to realize that.

Lot's of people agreed with ADAM and were offended by Aaron's letter, saying "Who are you to say what is and isn't gay enough?" The Huffington Post wrote a letter to Adam as a parody of Aaron's letter.

Pull your head out of your ass, VFTW. I say this as a proponent of gay rights and equality, not as an Adam fan.